Around 2 a.m. on June 27, 1979 I woke up from a sound sleep and sat straight up in my bed. My eyes were wide open and my heart was pounding. In approximately 84 hours I would be standing in church in front of God and everybody to plight my troth. How well did I really know this man with whom I was promising to spend the rest of my days? I was planning to move just HOW many miles across the Atlantic Ocean away from my family and friends? What was I thinking? WAS IT TOO LATE TO CANCEL?????!!!
I sat there for about half an hour or so mulling over my predicament. I remembered my friend who had asked me if I was SURE I wanted to marry Harry. Did she know something I didn’t know? I dismissed her concern since I knew she was not happy in her marriage. My mom always called me Miss Independent. Could Miss Independent become Mrs. Interdependent and handle the marriage yoke made for two? My grandfather told me he never expected me to get married; he thought I was cold and distant. I dismissed that because I had good reason to so be around him.
Then I thought about Harry, and how our friendship had evolved over decades. We’d already gone toe to toe on issues, worked through them, and moved forward. Eventually. He was thoughtful, steady, dependable and kind. Harry liked me as well as loved me. He was a can do kind of guy, and he had a sense of humor. I realized then that if all else failed, our God-given gift of humor would eventually pull us back to sanity. I decided it was a go.
I was, however, still wide awake, and it was heading for 3:30 a.m. So, I gathered up the clothes I would be taking on our honeymoon and went downstairs quietly. I got out the ironing board and iron and pressed everything, then packed my suitcases. I made a to do list, and around 4:30 a.m. I crawled back under the covers and quickly fell asleep.
The other day I told Harry about writing this post. Then, almost 34 years later, he ‘fessed up, too. He said that when he woke up on our wedding day he stood in his bedroom and asked himself, “What was I thinking?” But, he showed up anyway. Because he’s like that.
Wow…you ironed your clothes???
I love hearing the details of you getting married!
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I know, right? Yes, I did iron my clothes – the ones that weren’t polyester or something that doesn’t crinkle. 😀 Thank you for taking time to comment.
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I love reading your writing Susan, because nearly every time I’ll find a sentence or a phrase that’s just a jewel, and I’ll go “Dang it, that’s good!!, I wish I had written that!!!”
The jewel here was the marriage yoke built for two. Beautiful imagery and description. Excellent job!
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Thank you, Kevin, for so kindly dropping by, reading and commenting. And especially for mentioning your favorite part.
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This was a good one, momma. Love u!
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Thank you, daughter. I love you, too. Thank you for coming by and commenting.
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Wow…. This is very good.. I love reading your story… 🙂 I probably would start to read from part 1 now.. 🙂
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Thanks for reading and commenting. I’m still working on that story, so jump right in!
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Good job!!!
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